This is your chance to show her that she made a good decision by accepting your invitation. You may only get one shot at making her see how great you are and you don’t want to blow it.

So, how can you impress Colombian women on a date so they will accept a second or third date? It’s really not that complicated when you think about but it does take some effort. Here are a few tips to help you out so you can leave her wanting more of you:

• Plan out your date instead of just trying to wing it and get by. If you want to take her to dinner, make the reservations early. If you plan to go to the theater, get the tickets in advance. Sometimes, being spontaneous is a good thing. However, it’s not so good when you’re first getting to know someone and you’re trying to impress her so she will want to continue seeing you.
• Be respectful and treat her like a delicate flower. Colombian women like to be romanced and made to feel special. This is your chance to show her just how special she really is.
• Pay close attention to your appearance. These women put a lot of thought into the way they dress and look. They want to look their very best for you. Don’t they deserve the same courtesy.
• Even if it’s a casual date, you still need to look good. Nice jeans, long sleeve shirt tucked in with a belt and shoes to match will normally be sufficient. However, there may be times when a more formal attire is needed so have suits and ties available just in case.
• Colombian women like their men well-groomed so visit your barber for a haircut and shave before your date. Make sure your nails are clean and your hair is combed, too.
• Communicate with her don’t just talk. In other words, listen to what she has to say and talk to her about the things she is interested in. Try to get to know her better and let her get to know you.
• Be honest and don’t pretend to be something you’re not. Don’t make up some story about how successful you are if you’re barely making ends meet. Colombian women are more impressed with honesty than they are money.
• Be romantic and affectionate but not pushy. Romance is one thing but expecting her to be intimate with you may not end well. If this is what she wants, she will let you know. In the meantime, you can romance her without trying to push her into a relationship that she is not ready for yet.

Using these tips as a guide can help you impress Colombian women on a date but remember to be yourself, too. These women are smart and they will know when you’re trying too hard to make a good impression so relax. Don’t try so hard to impress her that you’re being uptight or annoying in some way. If you go overboard, she may not believe you’re being sincere

1. Lack of Good Men in Colombia
Is she disillusioned with the ever ongoing infidelities and lack of child rearing desire common in Latin American men?
It’s possible that she is looking for a honest man with a job and housing that is not a drug addict, and can’t find one?

2. Travel, Adventure, Money
Does she dream of traveling the world, seeing Disneyland, Las Vegas, driving a shiny car, having hot water and cable tv with HBO and Showtime? Does she dream of shopping in a store bigger than a house?

3. Lack of Basic Shelter, Food, Clothing needs
Forget air-conditioning. Most Colombianas can live without cold air, or hot water. Are they not hot blooded?
However, it is possible that her goals and desires are more focused on being married and living in the USA in a recently painted house whose roof doesn’t leak. If she comes from a smaller town and a poor family, having her basic needs met of food, shelter, clothing, and love may be all she has ever dreamt of.

3. True Love
Are you her shining White Knight whose heart she loves and adores? This is very possible. Does she laugh at all of your jokes? Is she respectful to you? Many Colombian Women have a very sweet and tender nature. American men are seen as being lovable – perceived as honest and with open and loving hearts.

3. Stability and Family
If she has children, it is very possible that she been searching for a stable man with a good heart with whom she plans to build a loving family with. You may be the man to give her children a better future.

4. Money and Greed
Are you her ever handy ATM Machine? If you ares ending her money by MoneyGram or Western Union, are all her relatives and sisters needing things every week, or getting sick? You may be one of several Gringos she has on the line. Here’s a question: Does she ask you for new shoes or a cell phone every time you have sex?

These are all possibilities.

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We aim to keep you up to date with dating tips on Colombian Women from Major Cities in Colombia like Cali, Bogota, Cartagena, Medellin, and Santa Marta.  In fact, we will be writing about women from all parts of Colombia.  Why?  Because they are beautiful, sexy, and American men need to understand more about them. A number of my Latina girlfriends hail from there.

I’ve had both good times and bad, so I should be able to tell you what to look for in a girl from Colombia as well as watch out for and avoid.

Plastic Surgery is common. Perhaps 25%-30% of the hottest Colombian women have had surgery. I would advise that you not just ask a Colombian Woman just if she has had surgery, as she may not understand. Ask her if she has had Aesthetic Enhancement or Augmentation, as they call it. About 80% of the big breasted ones Colombianas and Calinas (Girls from Cali) have had surgery. Other common surgeries are lipo / liposuction, and very commonly, just behing Breast Enhancement, is culo, Ass, or butt enhancement, as the colombian bubble-butt is well known and sought after.

Until Later,

Mike

Cali Colombia, 2012